Tuesday, July 5, 2011

all the world's a stage and all the men and women are merely players!

I've always pondered over the fact as to why people try to act around or out of a sticky situation with real irritation. why can't they just be their real self and face the consequences of any situation?what s the point if they try to get out of a situation without solving it. this has always been my question! a person always has to be them-self watsoever be the reason they should n't pretend was always my stand and i thought thats how it has to be.. But, Recently i attended an address by a more elderly and well experienced person on how to behave in an interview. in which he instructed us to lie convincingly in the HR rounds. After the programme, we raised questions as to if we lie ,wont keeping up the same ruin our progress and actual behaviour? When this was asked he thought for a long while and dismissed us to be small to have asked such a question and went on to sayin that in every part of our life we need to act in order to be noticed and blend in. on asking isn't it better to be ourself? he said no that can never happen. one can never be one's own self anywhere! on hearing this is was taken aback and utterly shocked :O is that really so? i really hope its not. that would really be an artificial life where at any point you yourself can never tell who you really are. wat a pitiful situation, is that the kind of world we live in? i sure hope and pray that is not the way it is..

this thought really left me disturbed and thats the reason i took to blogging after a long while.. that s a thought for everyone else reading this post too.