This is a pre warning that this post is gonna have a whole lot of questions about various things we face in everyday life - feelings- emotions and more so reactions and actions which caused them! so if you are upto getting thrown questions at go on ahead and do leave an answer if u can really find one..
ANGER- considered a negative emotion and defined by wikipedia as "Anger is an automatic response to ill treatment. It is the way a person indicates he or she will not tolerate certain types of behaviour. It is a feedback mechanism in which an unpleasant stimulus is met with an unpleasant response." (am quoting this cause when i look for anything this is where i usually search, basically when i typed out anger in google this was my first result.. this is supposedly a disclaimer :P)! actually the topic is not anger, its how one expresses it and how shud one actually handle it. the action which caused and its reaction.
This whole post came about bcos i was really angry before i started writing this and was told not to yell out angrily and must keep my calm to which i retorted that i cant act as a stone sculpture when i am in a bad mood ppl infront of me asking things will definitely get yelled at only.. well after a bit i realised i shudn't have yelled at somebody else for something that s disturbing me thats when i actually started thinking about actions and reactions and thought by writing it down i could enlighten a few more :D
well here goes qn 1) when someone makes you angry over something what would anyones first reaction be?
went out emotion mostly by shouting at that persn but thats supposedly wrong.. so what else does one do? talk politely to that person(mainly when that person is your boss ;)) and then went out that anger on some other victim who one comes across! (this is eventuality)
well the elders advice that the above two solutions are wrong and one is actually expected to reason out the situation and calm themself and react maturely (which is impossible to do, from my point of view) since when you re angered by something the brain stops working! (human brain has some technical faults too)
so the final conclusion that i ve come to is that the newtons law works in this situation too- "every action has an equal and opposite reaction" and that s inevitable so that couldn possibly be seen as a sin to get angry but one has to be sensible enough and keep one's mouth shut so that until the anger goes we dont say or do things out of our mind! and as in my case feel for it later.
so goodluck dealing with the equal and opposite reactions triggered by the actions :)
ANGER- considered a negative emotion and defined by wikipedia as "Anger is an automatic response to ill treatment. It is the way a person indicates he or she will not tolerate certain types of behaviour. It is a feedback mechanism in which an unpleasant stimulus is met with an unpleasant response." (am quoting this cause when i look for anything this is where i usually search, basically when i typed out anger in google this was my first result.. this is supposedly a disclaimer :P)! actually the topic is not anger, its how one expresses it and how shud one actually handle it. the action which caused and its reaction.
This whole post came about bcos i was really angry before i started writing this and was told not to yell out angrily and must keep my calm to which i retorted that i cant act as a stone sculpture when i am in a bad mood ppl infront of me asking things will definitely get yelled at only.. well after a bit i realised i shudn't have yelled at somebody else for something that s disturbing me thats when i actually started thinking about actions and reactions and thought by writing it down i could enlighten a few more :D
well here goes qn 1) when someone makes you angry over something what would anyones first reaction be?
went out emotion mostly by shouting at that persn but thats supposedly wrong.. so what else does one do? talk politely to that person(mainly when that person is your boss ;)) and then went out that anger on some other victim who one comes across! (this is eventuality)
well the elders advice that the above two solutions are wrong and one is actually expected to reason out the situation and calm themself and react maturely (which is impossible to do, from my point of view) since when you re angered by something the brain stops working! (human brain has some technical faults too)
so the final conclusion that i ve come to is that the newtons law works in this situation too- "every action has an equal and opposite reaction" and that s inevitable so that couldn possibly be seen as a sin to get angry but one has to be sensible enough and keep one's mouth shut so that until the anger goes we dont say or do things out of our mind! and as in my case feel for it later.
so goodluck dealing with the equal and opposite reactions triggered by the actions :)
