Overcoming Death

If there are a few things which leave one stranded in the middle of nowhere it is death. When you are clueless how is it possible to move to something? Friends and relatives gather to support. There is lot of wailing and crying, lot of emotions and the lack of the same. Noone really knows wat to do. Wat can anyone possible do to over come that loss?

Yes , it is inevitable, everyone knows it s coming somewhere along the way. But when it happens one doesnt really know how to handle it. Even when anticipated, we are never prepared for that eventuality. One can be prepared to live but how is it can one be prepared for death? Everything is at a standstill. It takes a while to understand that the person isnt anymore in our lives and deal with it..The thought that all those things which we had planned for the future cant happen anymore is taunting us when the past memories haunt us and keep reminding us of all those things we did together..

When the future is unclear and fog is clouding all our thoughts. When we cant think straight in between the various thoughts from people around leaves us in a whirlwind. How is it that we take the first step towards the path ahead, wat can we say to console ourselves and the concerned?

What to plan? Where to start? Where to go? All these questions stay at the back of our head as we need to start our bold endeavour forward. Towards what, really i cant say but life may be?

With all our hopes and prayers shattered we need to bring back something to look forward in life for the ride ahead for our own sake and all our close ones. Yes one soul hath departed but we still need to live for their sakes and our own.
L.I.V.E

Look beyond. Bring back the love for self, others and everything else which we might begin to detest.

Yes need to move forward. Can only be done when we decide to move from where we are at present.

B.E.L.I.E.V.E

That things will fall to place. Good things will be there ahead too.

H.O.P.E

For everything good and go on. Dont turn.

L.O.V.E

That is the essence of everything in life and is very much needed to start living again. A fresh new start.

Take that step forward!

One person's death shouldnt stop one 's life from continuing and going forward, even though it affects the everyday. Still you stil need to live til your turn comes. Yes sometime ahead it wil be your time to face death. Till then L.I.V.E!

c'mon back yes everything wont be the same ever again , differnt is good too? i cant say it when u want it to be how it was before. We all do yearn for it to be the way it was, but when it cant lets say start afresh instead of saying it is differnt from how it was.

N.E.W- renew your life's goals and interests.
Go Further! Move ahead!

Something about FOOD!!

I ve been meaning to write something about food for a long time now.. and so here it is! Andd yes i am a foodie :)

I saw a movie named Julie & Julia sometime back and i could say that it inspired me to think about writing this post.. It is a movie about how one woman Julie from the 80's who was a homemaker started wondering where her life was heading which lead her to take up cooking as a career and how she persevered to learn the art of french cooking since she herself loved to eat french food and also made her learnings useful for all others like her by making a book of recipes in English so it could be practised in American household as well.. And about another lady Julia who was a homemaker of the modern times who gets inspired by Julie and her work and starts to improve her livelihood by cooking and making it her break.

The movie brings out the thoughts of a woman wondering wat next when she reaches monotony in her life, and i am sure any girl (18+)who watches that movie wil be able to relate to the same state of mind and so did i.. Yes i wanted to talk about food since it is like a companion to many, a break to some, an escape to a few, stress buster, hunger reliever and many other forms it takes based on a person's mood. Don't you agree?

There are many times i am jus bored and eat food then.. Sometimes i show anger by not eating, i eat more when i am stressed , i take chocolate as my aid when i m sad or not particularly in a good mood and (may be the sugar :P) it immediately makes me feel good. It actually gives me the time to think and make a sane decision after the crazy moment hath passed :D I m sure many of you will also agree to this.

Not just for all these reasons, i am basically a foodie as well. Like to eat and try differnt types of food whenever i get a chance. South Indian, North Indian, Chinese, Continental so on and so forth :)

So all you ppl out there always remember-"the best people are those who love to eat" so never shy away from food.. Isnt the main reason that we work and earn money is to eat and live the way we want to?

And one final thing we all know that many people dont get one single meal a day so dont ever waste food :)

Have a good week ahead!

Everything is interconnected- random mind voices

I was looking at this random picture on Facebook and i dint really wonder anything as i scrolled past it , but this morning all the small things that went wrong i was getting a memory flash of that picture.. thats how mind works may be? connecting things together for no real reason. And i began writing this post.

I was awakened this morning by my sister asking me to help her with some music mixing for a college day function as i try to shake away the sleep and try to get in my head what exactly she s telling it gets late and i say this cant really be done now so go ahead with what was already planned and dont change anything and she wasn't really happy about that and with that feeling she left to college. The same thing started me out on a grumpy morning. I was getting ready to go get a learner's license when the current went out when i learned it was maintenance day in my area (9-5 power shut down). The heat was getting on everyone's nerves and me and my mom finally set out to the driving license office. There was a long line for getting the license and it was very hot since there was no current in that locality as well, after a 45 minute wait when i go in the officer tells me that i dont seem to be having the original license for proof instead i had brought the copy and that she cant consider it and that was it i was so frustrated that i had to start early and come here again tomorrow.

I left from there and walked to the nearby MRTS station to take the train to work in the scorching sun.
Finally took the train and reached work and started out with checking mails when i realised that my nost stud had fallen out. I dint know where, when and how. And that made me realise and brand it so that this day has started out to the worse. I was fighting with a friend as well and i reallllllllly couldnt get my mood up. Hence thought if i could bring out my thought out onto paper or rather in my case this blog online would calm me to face the rest of the long day.

And the picture that i was talking about at the start of this post is-

At the end after writing all this i dont even know how everything reminded me of this picture which i happened to scroll by earlier this week. Thats how mind works :P

Dont ask me how, cos i dont understand its evil ways :)

And yes you can see the smileys now, since i am considerably calmed down and ready to face the rest of the day however it turns out.

Good day folks!

P.S : Think about how everything is connected in all the weird ways. i never really get it.